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How to master the art of love and seduction:
"Many
people do not understand that being attractive does not require good looks. You
can be a normal-looking person and still be a master or mistress of seduction.
However,
in
order to become a god or goddess of attraction, we must first understand the
psychology behind flirting and attraction if we want to master them and use them
to our benefit.
Have you ever met anyone that's not so good-looking, but that has tons of "love
fans" dying to be with them. Here's the main reason why
some people are just naturally attractive (even
if they don't appear to be so physically good-looking to you):
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...Many people
think that being themselves will get them any person that they desire, and that
that’s all it takes. That’s not completely true. Although I totally agree with
that you should never try to be someone you’re not, I must point out that
usually the problem is that we do not behave like ourselves when we're in
company of a person that we're really attracted to.
Here are
a few things you can do that can almost
guarantee you anyone you might be interested in:
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...Is not a secret that
most men just simply do not know how to treat a woman, no matter how hard they
try. The problem is that they can never find a middle ground. They either treat
women like garbage or treat them like goddesses (and that can be very creepy for
most women, too).
If you’re a guy, listen
here, buddy. Women want a man that they can look up to and respect. Abnormally
treating a woman like she’s a goddess might freak her out a bit. And that
happens because the magic is automatically gone once she knows she’s got you
wrapped around her fingers. You’re no longer allowing her to use her
natural-given gifts of seduction with you. So, you’ll have a very high chance of
getting transferred to the “Friends List” if you go that way.
In
order for you to become a desirable man, you must allow women to actually desire
you. When you just obsess about a woman, and she knows it, the “game” is no
longer 50% about you, like it should be. It’s now all about her, and she really
deserves to explore other things outside herself. Don't give up so easily. Give
women a chance to explore you. Here's how you can do that:
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...Pay attention
here, ladies: I was reading an
article on MSN, about a very physically attractive woman, who was
frustrated, because she couldn’t understand why the man she wanted was
not interested in her. “I look hot. All guys want me,” she implied to
Dr. Gilda. “How come I can’t get what I want?” Dr. Gilda referred
to her hot looks as not enough. In her reply, Dr. Gilda told the hot
woman that in order to be an attractive woman she needed to work on her
inner passions.
The
reason why this hot woman was having trouble is simply because she was only
focused on her physical self. She was already destined for failure regardless of
the relationship she would have been in, to begin with. Girls! Your looks are
not enough. Even if you’re hot, culture yourself, and learn everything you
possibly can. This way, when a man meets you, he’ll know you’re worth more than
the rest. Doesn’t sound man-like? Actually, women are hundreds of times more
physically-concerned about their own looks than most men could ever be.
See,
ladies, this is a problem that most women do not understand. Your looks are only
good for a very short period of time. Once a guy sees you more than a few
times, your looks will no longer be enough to keep a man interested in you.
Here's how you really make any man fall in love with you for long-term:
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...Guys ,
stop worrying about saying the wrong thing. The more you worry, the more
chances you create of saying something dumb. Women are very mysterious,
and sometimes make no sense at all—I know. But they prefer a guy who is
a little more laid-back than the nerd who obsesses over his behavior in
front of a woman. If you ever say something out of place, and you notice
she’s offended, simply smile and say something like, “Someone didn’t
take that well…I like sensitivity in a woman. I’m sorry. I take that
back.” Again—don’t always copy everything I say word per word. Be unique
and original. Now, notice how in this example, you apologized without
the need to bury yourself or say something like, “I’m such an idiot.”
Negative comments like than only tell a woman how low your self-esteem
is. By acknowledging her disappointment in this way, you’re telling her,
“I’m an understanding guy, I’m open-minded, I can apologize and still
keep my self-respect…I’m good enough for you.”
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...Ladies, how do you
make a man attracted to you if you are not such a good-looking woman? Here's the million
dollar answer:
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...Guys, women are even
less concerned about the opposite sex’ looks than men are. They do enjoy a hot
body, but it’s just a small treat compared to a great personality. In
particular, women are more concerned about their own looks than any
guy’s—REALLY! She'll fall for you if she can see that you're an interesting guy.
How do you become an interesting guy to woman? The first thing you should do is...
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...Always remember that
attraction is an art—not just a physical thing like we once thought. That puts
you on the “game” regardless of who and how you are (physically). One of the
most important things to get is that regardless of who you are, there are great
things about you—even if you can’t see them yourself at first sight. I’m sure
you’ve probably heard the very old saying, “beauty is in the eye of the
beholder.” That means that there are so many different flavors, sizes, and
colors out there, that to determine what’s beautiful, and what is not, is almost
impossible. Nothing is beautiful, and nothing is ugly, unless we decide it
either way. Whether you’re aware or not, everyone has a chance in the world of
love…and you’ll be completely convinced once we get to the next sections, where
we get into more proven tips and attracting techniques. This was just a warm-up."
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